I have visited other interesting blogs. However, I have observed that a number have been posting videos. While videos have been quite popular to some, I just do not have the patience to watch them online. Maybe because I don't have a state-of-the art computer that it takes awhile to view them.
On second thoughts, blogging for me should be more a venue for expressing individual ideas, writing one's thoughts and sharing information. Overloading a blog with videos and photos just doesn't really impress me. It's like making up for lack of substance. I am quite surprised how many people could have so much time going through them. I am more into worthwhile reading.
One time my friend called me a minimalist. Maybe because I keep things simple and as much as possible clutter-free. I prefer brevity and substance. Technology evolves quickly that we have so much information to digest thereby resulting in superficial knowledge.
Monday, December 17, 2007
Liberties in Mass
With the Christmas season just around the corner, almost everybody seems to be in a festive mood. In last Sunday's mass, I was surprised as after the gospel reading, a church group presented a short play. There is no doubt that the intention was to rouse people of their complacency in the faith. However, I have always felt that dances, plays or dramatizations are out of place at mass.
These days, church organizations reach out to people in many ways. Maybe they think that somehow being creative would draw more people to church. Almost everything is being secularized. Where do we draw the line between sacred and secular? I just wish that they leave the mass as it is. After all, people are in church not to be entertained. Nevertheless, after the presentation, the priest delivered his homily.
I just didn't see the sense in the intermission. A good homily could very well send out the message across and would have given people more to think about and reflect on after the mass.
These days, church organizations reach out to people in many ways. Maybe they think that somehow being creative would draw more people to church. Almost everything is being secularized. Where do we draw the line between sacred and secular? I just wish that they leave the mass as it is. After all, people are in church not to be entertained. Nevertheless, after the presentation, the priest delivered his homily.
I just didn't see the sense in the intermission. A good homily could very well send out the message across and would have given people more to think about and reflect on after the mass.
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
U-turn
We often encounter a U-turn in driving to a destination. It might surprise you that even in our lives we could make use of a U-turn.
I am a person that is sensitive to directions. Though there were instances when I drove past some landmarks and ended up taking a U-turn. When I don't know a place, I ask for directions and when a place seems not as described I would immediately stop to make sure that I am not lost. There are however, people who drive endlessly until they realized that they were already miles away from where they were going.
Have you ever heard of a typhoon or storm going back? Definitely, it happens when a stronger typhoon pulls it back after it has moved away to where it has been. Isn't that a nice metaphor of our lives as well. We think we're done with some things in life only to be pulled back once again. If it was a bad habit, vice or attitude, then we should be strong enough to resist the pull of our old selves.
However, if it was a greater cause that we had left to pursue other things, or probably a road we did not take that strayed us away from the right path, then why not consider a U-turn. One can always go back and reorient his directions.
The earlier or sooner one gets back the better possibility to reach one's destination. In life, we don't have to always move forward. Sometimes, a U-turn makes the difference in finding one's purpose and it saves us time and resources as well. So don't be afraid to make a U-turn even storms come back. Why not people then?
I am a person that is sensitive to directions. Though there were instances when I drove past some landmarks and ended up taking a U-turn. When I don't know a place, I ask for directions and when a place seems not as described I would immediately stop to make sure that I am not lost. There are however, people who drive endlessly until they realized that they were already miles away from where they were going.
Have you ever heard of a typhoon or storm going back? Definitely, it happens when a stronger typhoon pulls it back after it has moved away to where it has been. Isn't that a nice metaphor of our lives as well. We think we're done with some things in life only to be pulled back once again. If it was a bad habit, vice or attitude, then we should be strong enough to resist the pull of our old selves.
However, if it was a greater cause that we had left to pursue other things, or probably a road we did not take that strayed us away from the right path, then why not consider a U-turn. One can always go back and reorient his directions.
The earlier or sooner one gets back the better possibility to reach one's destination. In life, we don't have to always move forward. Sometimes, a U-turn makes the difference in finding one's purpose and it saves us time and resources as well. So don't be afraid to make a U-turn even storms come back. Why not people then?
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
I am not telling...
I came across this quote from Louis Kronenberger.
"The closer and more confidential our relationship with someone, the less we are entitled to ask about what we are not voluntarily told."
I don't think I understand his point of view. However, it has been my principle not to ask more than what was shared with me. In my interaction with people, I realized that it comes across as apathetic. A lot of friends have voluntarily opened up to me about their lives and struggles. These are just for me to keep and to take to the grave.
I am honored by such trust and confidence that I felt it was my self-imposed discipline to ask about details that probably gave them the courage to speak out. But then, asking also shows interest in what they are going through. It is the feeling of being able to release their inner struggles to someone they know that won't be judgmental and critical no matter what.
In any case, I send out the message that I respect boundaries. In all likelihood, it encourages them to share more. How's that?
"The closer and more confidential our relationship with someone, the less we are entitled to ask about what we are not voluntarily told."
I don't think I understand his point of view. However, it has been my principle not to ask more than what was shared with me. In my interaction with people, I realized that it comes across as apathetic. A lot of friends have voluntarily opened up to me about their lives and struggles. These are just for me to keep and to take to the grave.
I am honored by such trust and confidence that I felt it was my self-imposed discipline to ask about details that probably gave them the courage to speak out. But then, asking also shows interest in what they are going through. It is the feeling of being able to release their inner struggles to someone they know that won't be judgmental and critical no matter what.
In any case, I send out the message that I respect boundaries. In all likelihood, it encourages them to share more. How's that?
Halloween
After more than two weeks, I am posting again. There just seems to be a lot of things to do. Or maybe a lot of distractions. Lately, I think I am more engrossed about reading than writing. However, with everybody going crazy about Halloween, I thought I should somehow write about it.
It used to be not really celebrated much where I am. Though with commercialism and Western influence, malls and establishments have found ways to give it more than the attention it deserves.
As Catholic, we cannot simply find an excuse for participating in Halloween activities in the spirit of fun. Lately, more and more of ghoulish characters and scary images of the dead are taking over what should be the eve of All Saints' Day. The day when we should remember people who have lived exemplary lives and should inspire us to be better everyday in pursuit of the eternal reward.
Let's do our part in educating our children on what is really significant. We know better who deserve recognition in the midst of the evil that abounds.
Check out this interesting article, "It's Time To Come Against the Devil's Christmas."
It used to be not really celebrated much where I am. Though with commercialism and Western influence, malls and establishments have found ways to give it more than the attention it deserves.
As Catholic, we cannot simply find an excuse for participating in Halloween activities in the spirit of fun. Lately, more and more of ghoulish characters and scary images of the dead are taking over what should be the eve of All Saints' Day. The day when we should remember people who have lived exemplary lives and should inspire us to be better everyday in pursuit of the eternal reward.
Let's do our part in educating our children on what is really significant. We know better who deserve recognition in the midst of the evil that abounds.
Check out this interesting article, "It's Time To Come Against the Devil's Christmas."
Friday, October 12, 2007
Our Lady of the Pillar
Today is the Feast of Our Lady of the Pillar. I came to know her when I was reviewing for the engineers' licensure exam in 1983. I attended a review school just across the church of the Blessed Sacrament Fathers where Our Lady of the Pillar is the patron. I sought the Lady's intercession and she did not disappoint me. From then on, I visit the church from time to time.
Our Lady of the Pillar is also considered the Patron of Hispanics as it was in Saragossa, Spain that she appeared to the apostle James on a pillar.
Our Lady of the Pillar pray for us.
Our Lady of the Pillar is also considered the Patron of Hispanics as it was in Saragossa, Spain that she appeared to the apostle James on a pillar.
Our Lady of the Pillar pray for us.
God Will Do the Rest
My plate is still full. Everyday, things get heaped into it endlessly. Anyway, I believe we have to really make room for some things that we like to do. It's just a matter of making sacrifices once in a while or letting some things wait in the mean time.
Many of us have a lot of plans or ideas that are just waiting for the right opportunity. If we look back, there are things that we could, we should or we must have done. Unfortunately, somehow they were all put in the back burner until we forgot about it. We all have limited time in this world and it would be a pity if our ideas get lost forever.
St. Francis de Sales has this to say:
If we have good ideas or good desires but lack strength to put them into practice, we must present them to God with a firm hope that He will help us. Certainly, if we place all our confidences in Divine Goodness, the Lord will not fail to grant whatever is necessary to persevere in His service. (Sermons 61; O. IX, p. 310)
We are missing a lot if we don't ask God. We often try to do things on our own but humans have limitations. God will show us which needs to be done first and what things can wait.
Let us always live in partnership with the Lord. It matters a lot.
Many of us have a lot of plans or ideas that are just waiting for the right opportunity. If we look back, there are things that we could, we should or we must have done. Unfortunately, somehow they were all put in the back burner until we forgot about it. We all have limited time in this world and it would be a pity if our ideas get lost forever.
St. Francis de Sales has this to say:
If we have good ideas or good desires but lack strength to put them into practice, we must present them to God with a firm hope that He will help us. Certainly, if we place all our confidences in Divine Goodness, the Lord will not fail to grant whatever is necessary to persevere in His service. (Sermons 61; O. IX, p. 310)
We are missing a lot if we don't ask God. We often try to do things on our own but humans have limitations. God will show us which needs to be done first and what things can wait.
Let us always live in partnership with the Lord. It matters a lot.
Friday, September 28, 2007
Service
It has been awhile. Again, a lot of things have been taking up much of my time. I should have posted this yesterday in time for the feast of St. Vincent de Paul. The message also suits me well and those who are buried neck-deep in commitments. I know it is really hard to decide which comes first. Often, it becomes a matter of urgency. Like what happened yesterday. An unexpected message from my sister for a favor that I had to squeeze into my already tight schedule.
Then I noticed that the left rear tire of my brother's jeep was flat. It was good that a neighbor, who's also a friend of my brother was around to give a hand. It took up much of my time until I realized it was time to cook dinner.
I am still struggling to juggle my schedule. There are just too many things to do that challenge my time management skills. Well, I was able to finally sit and collect my thoughts. We could use this timeless wisdom from St. Vincent de Paul:
"The service of the poor is to be preferred to all else, and to be performed without delay. If at a time set aside for prayer, medicine or help has to be brought to some poor man, go and do what has to be done with an easy mind, offering it up to God as a prayer. Do not be put out by uneasiness or a sense of sin because of prayers interrupted by the service of the poor: for God is not neglected if prayers are put aside, if God's work is interrupted in order that another such work may be completed.
Therefore, when you leave prayer to help some poor man, remember this — that the work has been done for God. Charity takes precedence over any rules, everything ought to tend to it above all; since it is itself a great lady, what it orders should be carried out. Let us show our service to the poor, then, with renewed ardor in our hearts, seeking out above all any abandoned people, since they are given to us as lords and patrons."
Then I noticed that the left rear tire of my brother's jeep was flat. It was good that a neighbor, who's also a friend of my brother was around to give a hand. It took up much of my time until I realized it was time to cook dinner.
I am still struggling to juggle my schedule. There are just too many things to do that challenge my time management skills. Well, I was able to finally sit and collect my thoughts. We could use this timeless wisdom from St. Vincent de Paul:
"The service of the poor is to be preferred to all else, and to be performed without delay. If at a time set aside for prayer, medicine or help has to be brought to some poor man, go and do what has to be done with an easy mind, offering it up to God as a prayer. Do not be put out by uneasiness or a sense of sin because of prayers interrupted by the service of the poor: for God is not neglected if prayers are put aside, if God's work is interrupted in order that another such work may be completed.
Therefore, when you leave prayer to help some poor man, remember this — that the work has been done for God. Charity takes precedence over any rules, everything ought to tend to it above all; since it is itself a great lady, what it orders should be carried out. Let us show our service to the poor, then, with renewed ardor in our hearts, seeking out above all any abandoned people, since they are given to us as lords and patrons."
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Feast of the Assumption
Today we celebrate the feast of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Catholics have a special place in their hearts for Mary. As we profess our belief in the Apostle's Creed in the resurrection of the body, we should seek to find the significance in our everyday lives of today's celebration as the body and soul of the mother of our Lord was taken up to heaven.
Most people live with a myopic view of their lives like we are meant only for this world. If we set our eyes farther, maybe we will understand the higher calling for each one of us. We probably would make wiser choices and care more for ourselves and the people around us. Our earthly lives will be more a preparation of what is yet to come in the kingdom of our father.
The true meaning and purpose of our life in the light of the Assumption of our Lady was beautifully explained in the pastoral letter of the Archbishop of Malta and Bishop of Gozo. Check out this link.
Most people live with a myopic view of their lives like we are meant only for this world. If we set our eyes farther, maybe we will understand the higher calling for each one of us. We probably would make wiser choices and care more for ourselves and the people around us. Our earthly lives will be more a preparation of what is yet to come in the kingdom of our father.
The true meaning and purpose of our life in the light of the Assumption of our Lady was beautifully explained in the pastoral letter of the Archbishop of Malta and Bishop of Gozo. Check out this link.
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
It's About Me...
Lately, there has been growing awareness of the pervading "me-first" and "what feels good to me" culture in our society. As we have observed, times have changed radically from the way parents raised their children to how young people behave.
Maybe the ills in our society had finally knocked sense to most of us that we recognized the need to reverse or stem the tide of insensitivity. Some months ago, I shared with my siblings a story that struck a responsive chord in me. It brought up the message grown-ups send to children in everyday behaviors that we often think of lightly.
A man shared about his experience in a zoo where a family was looking at an animal I can no longer remember. The children, in their curiosity and awe have been taking long in enjoying the sight. After a while, the father, told the kids it's time to go. Wanting to enjoy the experience more, the children protested. To which the father replied, "No, there are other people behind us waiting to take a closer look and get near the animal."
The father's response was impressive and admirable. In today's age, most parents would likely let their children stay as long as they wanted regardless if there's already a crowd behind. Anyway, "we paid our entrance fee" so let the others wait.
This was also a common sight in public telephone booths in the past when one would leisurely talk on the phone, unmindful if there are people waiting to make important calls. Thank God for mobile phones that one need not put up with such insensitivities anymore.
After my brother passed away in 1998, we were sharing stories in the family about how he probably had the feeling that he was leaving. My grandmother recalled how my brother, despite feeling sick, though at that time he had not yet gone to the doctor not suspecting something serious, told her that he was going to the Land Transportation Office to register the family car after he had it all checked and tuned-up for anybody to use. In retrospect, my grandmother thought it was a premonition as he could have said that he's taking charge of everything about the car so that there would be no problem when he used it himself. Instead, he said for anybody to use it.
A little over a month after, he passed away, a few days after the surgery to extract the tumor in his brain. He did not have many chances to use the car himself as his symptoms manifested more often after he spoke those words.
Premonition or not, it showed more of his generous character. It's like planting a tree knowing that he would not benefit from its shade or fruits. It makes me more proud of my brother. How our parents have brought us up to think of others first before ourselves.
I came across an article that has very interesting points that are well worth considering. Check out this link.
Maybe the ills in our society had finally knocked sense to most of us that we recognized the need to reverse or stem the tide of insensitivity. Some months ago, I shared with my siblings a story that struck a responsive chord in me. It brought up the message grown-ups send to children in everyday behaviors that we often think of lightly.
A man shared about his experience in a zoo where a family was looking at an animal I can no longer remember. The children, in their curiosity and awe have been taking long in enjoying the sight. After a while, the father, told the kids it's time to go. Wanting to enjoy the experience more, the children protested. To which the father replied, "No, there are other people behind us waiting to take a closer look and get near the animal."
The father's response was impressive and admirable. In today's age, most parents would likely let their children stay as long as they wanted regardless if there's already a crowd behind. Anyway, "we paid our entrance fee" so let the others wait.
This was also a common sight in public telephone booths in the past when one would leisurely talk on the phone, unmindful if there are people waiting to make important calls. Thank God for mobile phones that one need not put up with such insensitivities anymore.
After my brother passed away in 1998, we were sharing stories in the family about how he probably had the feeling that he was leaving. My grandmother recalled how my brother, despite feeling sick, though at that time he had not yet gone to the doctor not suspecting something serious, told her that he was going to the Land Transportation Office to register the family car after he had it all checked and tuned-up for anybody to use. In retrospect, my grandmother thought it was a premonition as he could have said that he's taking charge of everything about the car so that there would be no problem when he used it himself. Instead, he said for anybody to use it.
A little over a month after, he passed away, a few days after the surgery to extract the tumor in his brain. He did not have many chances to use the car himself as his symptoms manifested more often after he spoke those words.
Premonition or not, it showed more of his generous character. It's like planting a tree knowing that he would not benefit from its shade or fruits. It makes me more proud of my brother. How our parents have brought us up to think of others first before ourselves.
I came across an article that has very interesting points that are well worth considering. Check out this link.
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Of dirty dishes, pots and pans
There are lots of things keeping me busy lately that I have not posted in a while.
I should say I am now in Martha's shoes (Mary and Martha) since beginning August some family members are home for a vacation. After quite a time of living alone and getting used to silence, things are quite different when there are people and friends dropping by the house to visit family members who have been working overseas.
It wasn't a choice to be Martha. Maybe even with Martha herself. Sometimes, opportunities present themselves that one has to rise up to the occasion. Who else could be, when I am the hostess and lady of the house?
In a way, I realized being Mary for long gave me the strength to keep up with busier days. When household chores were getting the better part of me, I was able to keep cool thinking that everything will come to pass. After all, it's not the orderly house nor the special dish I should cook that will matter but the time that we get to share with one another once again. When friends and family come and visit, are they more concerned about the house than the people in the house? If I go and visit my friends and family, wouldn't it be the people that I will be looking for instead of the food they will offer me?
It's so much convenient to call a number and have food delivered to the house. That is the good news about technology. With the press of a number, you'll have the things you need without leaving the house. And no more need for elaborate preparations.
However, there will always be clutter with people around. I wonder how we have accumulated so much trash. In spite of that, I let the dirty dishes pile up and the used cups and glasses stand still. These things can wait when everyone has left. When it's time to clean up, the laughter that has died down continue to linger in my ears as I get to cherish more the time we shared with one another.
The house is still a mess as boxes and packages are slowly cleared away. Just like the days passing by so quickly that it won't be long that I am alone in the house once again. Late-nights sleep, more cooking and dishes to wash after all are not so much trouble knowing that when you wake up the next day, the people you hold dear to your hearts are just close by.
What could be better than seize the day and make memories that can be cherished a long time after the plates and cups have been put away in the cupboards.
I was Martha but maybe just in part.
I should say I am now in Martha's shoes (Mary and Martha) since beginning August some family members are home for a vacation. After quite a time of living alone and getting used to silence, things are quite different when there are people and friends dropping by the house to visit family members who have been working overseas.
It wasn't a choice to be Martha. Maybe even with Martha herself. Sometimes, opportunities present themselves that one has to rise up to the occasion. Who else could be, when I am the hostess and lady of the house?
In a way, I realized being Mary for long gave me the strength to keep up with busier days. When household chores were getting the better part of me, I was able to keep cool thinking that everything will come to pass. After all, it's not the orderly house nor the special dish I should cook that will matter but the time that we get to share with one another once again. When friends and family come and visit, are they more concerned about the house than the people in the house? If I go and visit my friends and family, wouldn't it be the people that I will be looking for instead of the food they will offer me?
It's so much convenient to call a number and have food delivered to the house. That is the good news about technology. With the press of a number, you'll have the things you need without leaving the house. And no more need for elaborate preparations.
However, there will always be clutter with people around. I wonder how we have accumulated so much trash. In spite of that, I let the dirty dishes pile up and the used cups and glasses stand still. These things can wait when everyone has left. When it's time to clean up, the laughter that has died down continue to linger in my ears as I get to cherish more the time we shared with one another.
The house is still a mess as boxes and packages are slowly cleared away. Just like the days passing by so quickly that it won't be long that I am alone in the house once again. Late-nights sleep, more cooking and dishes to wash after all are not so much trouble knowing that when you wake up the next day, the people you hold dear to your hearts are just close by.
What could be better than seize the day and make memories that can be cherished a long time after the plates and cups have been put away in the cupboards.
I was Martha but maybe just in part.
Saturday, August 4, 2007
The Art of Listening
Growing up, I had learned the value of listening. My grandmother used to tell us that we should take the time to listen to everybody and be alert to pick up whatever could be useful to us.
A few weeks ago, I was listening to the priest's homily on Mary and Martha. It struck me that many people choose the way of Martha than of Mary. That is because most people are concerned about visible accomplishments than interior growth. I also realized that it takes a lot of effort for most people to sit still and listen. In fact, it is not uncommon for some people to finish other people's sentences.
The priest shared his own experience of a sacristan who's quite eager in carrying out errands. Even before he could finish his instructions, the sacristan would be rushing to go. Then after a while, he's back to ask questions. His eagerness would have been impressive had he just listened to all the details. Thus, saving on precious time.
It is interesting to reflect on this as the priest emphasized that people who listen seldom get lost. True enough in our journey through life. God sends us messages when we wander away from what is right for us. However, we choose not to listen.
A friend told me once that whenever she has to work late in the office by herself, she needs the MP3 player plugged to her ears. Otherwise, she feels scared alone. It amused me as I can do with total silence.
As a musician, I hate passive listening. I turn on the radio and listen. In that way, I get to appreciate the music. I was thinking how many people are like my friend. Turning on the radio for the sake of having something or anything to fill in the silence because they are afraid. Maybe of what they will hear within themselves.
To me silence is uplifting. I get to hear a lot around me. Isn't it also how we get to deepen our relationship with God?
Listening requires strength and concentration. Noise clutter our daily lives as we rush to accomplish our goals. However, no matter how much we have done, there will always be that need for us to be in touch with ourselves and God.
Let us strive to spend some minutes in silence everyday. Practice the art of listening and it won't be long you'll notice the difference in you and the people around you.
A few weeks ago, I was listening to the priest's homily on Mary and Martha. It struck me that many people choose the way of Martha than of Mary. That is because most people are concerned about visible accomplishments than interior growth. I also realized that it takes a lot of effort for most people to sit still and listen. In fact, it is not uncommon for some people to finish other people's sentences.
The priest shared his own experience of a sacristan who's quite eager in carrying out errands. Even before he could finish his instructions, the sacristan would be rushing to go. Then after a while, he's back to ask questions. His eagerness would have been impressive had he just listened to all the details. Thus, saving on precious time.
It is interesting to reflect on this as the priest emphasized that people who listen seldom get lost. True enough in our journey through life. God sends us messages when we wander away from what is right for us. However, we choose not to listen.
A friend told me once that whenever she has to work late in the office by herself, she needs the MP3 player plugged to her ears. Otherwise, she feels scared alone. It amused me as I can do with total silence.
As a musician, I hate passive listening. I turn on the radio and listen. In that way, I get to appreciate the music. I was thinking how many people are like my friend. Turning on the radio for the sake of having something or anything to fill in the silence because they are afraid. Maybe of what they will hear within themselves.
To me silence is uplifting. I get to hear a lot around me. Isn't it also how we get to deepen our relationship with God?
Listening requires strength and concentration. Noise clutter our daily lives as we rush to accomplish our goals. However, no matter how much we have done, there will always be that need for us to be in touch with ourselves and God.
Let us strive to spend some minutes in silence everyday. Practice the art of listening and it won't be long you'll notice the difference in you and the people around you.
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Answered Prayer
After more than a week, I am back online. I should have posted this the other week but my computer crashed. Well, I have been using this PC for more than five years already. Obviously, it has been showing signs of ageing.
Last Friday, I picked up my 10-year old niece from school as her father could not. So, my sister asked if I could spare a few minutes. She would then pick her up later in my house after office.
I thought it would be wise to give her piano lessons while waiting for her mother. Occasionally, I teach piano to my nephews and nieces whenever they come and visit.
After more than an hour, I noticed her attention started to deviate from the piano keys to the painting on the wall just above the piano. I grew up with that painting of Jesus wielding a rope and overturning tables in the temple. My maternal grandfather had it painted from a photo in a prayer book. To him, it should send a message about respect for one's house.
My niece's curiosity finally got the better of her and asked me why Jesus seemed to be driving away the people in the temple. A few weeks ago, the day's gospel was about this scene. The priest explained that during those days, it is normal to see money changers and people selling animals outside the temple. These are allowed as people who would come to the temple would buy their animal offerings. Those who are rich usually buy cows to offer while the less moneyed go for doves. Remember when Jesus was presented to the temple, His parents bought doves as offering. But that would be another story.
I was glad that I remembered the explanation of the priest as her questions were specific as to why there are doves flying and money scattered on the floor.
I have observed that she was keen on hearing more stories from the bible. I took the opportunity to tell her about David, Goliath, Abel and Cain. When her mother came, we were still on the piano telling stories.
It could have been just one bonding moment for me and my niece. However, on Sunday evening when I was saying my prayers before bed. It suddenly hit me that I have an answered prayer. Every night, I would consecrate my nieces and nephews to the Infant Jesus and also say the prayer for children that I found from an unknown source in the internet.
The prayer said that parents say one prayer for their children each month . Then at the end of the year, they would have covered everything. What I do is choose three prayers that I pray for a week each night and as I say the prayer about the children hearing stories from the bible to guide their lives, I was struck that I suddenly remember that Friday afternoon with my niece.
Yes, God answered my prayer but I didn't realize it was through me. I forgot that God can use anything or anyone including me. It was good enough that I had heard the priest's explanation and when the opportunity presented itself, there I was ready with the story.
Life brings us unexpected moments where past experiences we thought should be kept locked in our memories could be enlightening stories to others treading the same path. Sometimes, we ran into entirely different situations from what we had planned or expected. The key is to always seize the moment or the lesson of the experience. Who knows, they will come in handy shortly. Like the piano lesson that turned into a bible sharing story session.
Let me share with you the prayers for children. Hope you get blessed as well.
HOW TO PRAY FOR YOUR CHILD
1. Pray NOTHING hinders your child from accepting Christ as his personal Savior early in life. (Matthew 19:14)
2. Pray your child learns to know God and will have a deep desire to do God's will for his life. (Psalms 119:27,30,34,35).
3. Pray your child hears stories from the Bible that will be a basis for his decisions throughout life. (Ecclesiastes 12:1, Psalms 71:17).
4. Pray your child will-develop a keen sense of right and wrong and that he will truly abhor evil and cling to that which is good. (Psalms 139:23-4).
5. Pray your child will increase in wisdom (mentally) and in stature (physically) and in favor with God (spiritually) and man (socially). (Luke 2:52). This prayer covers his total development to his full potential.
6. Pray that your child will develop a thankful heart and a positive mental attitude. (Psalm 126:2-3, Romans 8:31)
7. Pray that God protects your child from Satan and his wiles in every area of his life. (John 17:55, Psalm 121)
8. Pray that God would destroy the enemies in his life whether they be weaknesses, lying, selfishness etc. (Psalms 120:2; 140).
9. Pray that God would make him successful in the work God has for him to do. (Psalm 118:25, 139:9-10)
10. Pray he have a strong sense of belonging to a family that is loving and dwells together in unity (Psalms 133, Colossians 3:12-14).
11. Pray he will respect authority. (Romans 13:1, Ephesians 6:1-4).
12. Pray that his entire life will be a testimony of the greatness and love of Christ. (Philippians 2:15-16 Thess 5:2-3)
If you pray one of these a month, you will have your child covered for a year!
Author Unknown
Last Friday, I picked up my 10-year old niece from school as her father could not. So, my sister asked if I could spare a few minutes. She would then pick her up later in my house after office.
I thought it would be wise to give her piano lessons while waiting for her mother. Occasionally, I teach piano to my nephews and nieces whenever they come and visit.
After more than an hour, I noticed her attention started to deviate from the piano keys to the painting on the wall just above the piano. I grew up with that painting of Jesus wielding a rope and overturning tables in the temple. My maternal grandfather had it painted from a photo in a prayer book. To him, it should send a message about respect for one's house.
My niece's curiosity finally got the better of her and asked me why Jesus seemed to be driving away the people in the temple. A few weeks ago, the day's gospel was about this scene. The priest explained that during those days, it is normal to see money changers and people selling animals outside the temple. These are allowed as people who would come to the temple would buy their animal offerings. Those who are rich usually buy cows to offer while the less moneyed go for doves. Remember when Jesus was presented to the temple, His parents bought doves as offering. But that would be another story.
I was glad that I remembered the explanation of the priest as her questions were specific as to why there are doves flying and money scattered on the floor.
I have observed that she was keen on hearing more stories from the bible. I took the opportunity to tell her about David, Goliath, Abel and Cain. When her mother came, we were still on the piano telling stories.
It could have been just one bonding moment for me and my niece. However, on Sunday evening when I was saying my prayers before bed. It suddenly hit me that I have an answered prayer. Every night, I would consecrate my nieces and nephews to the Infant Jesus and also say the prayer for children that I found from an unknown source in the internet.
The prayer said that parents say one prayer for their children each month . Then at the end of the year, they would have covered everything. What I do is choose three prayers that I pray for a week each night and as I say the prayer about the children hearing stories from the bible to guide their lives, I was struck that I suddenly remember that Friday afternoon with my niece.
Yes, God answered my prayer but I didn't realize it was through me. I forgot that God can use anything or anyone including me. It was good enough that I had heard the priest's explanation and when the opportunity presented itself, there I was ready with the story.
Life brings us unexpected moments where past experiences we thought should be kept locked in our memories could be enlightening stories to others treading the same path. Sometimes, we ran into entirely different situations from what we had planned or expected. The key is to always seize the moment or the lesson of the experience. Who knows, they will come in handy shortly. Like the piano lesson that turned into a bible sharing story session.
Let me share with you the prayers for children. Hope you get blessed as well.
HOW TO PRAY FOR YOUR CHILD
1. Pray NOTHING hinders your child from accepting Christ as his personal Savior early in life. (Matthew 19:14)
2. Pray your child learns to know God and will have a deep desire to do God's will for his life. (Psalms 119:27,30,34,35).
3. Pray your child hears stories from the Bible that will be a basis for his decisions throughout life. (Ecclesiastes 12:1, Psalms 71:17).
4. Pray your child will-develop a keen sense of right and wrong and that he will truly abhor evil and cling to that which is good. (Psalms 139:23-4).
5. Pray your child will increase in wisdom (mentally) and in stature (physically) and in favor with God (spiritually) and man (socially). (Luke 2:52). This prayer covers his total development to his full potential.
6. Pray that your child will develop a thankful heart and a positive mental attitude. (Psalm 126:2-3, Romans 8:31)
7. Pray that God protects your child from Satan and his wiles in every area of his life. (John 17:55, Psalm 121)
8. Pray that God would destroy the enemies in his life whether they be weaknesses, lying, selfishness etc. (Psalms 120:2; 140).
9. Pray that God would make him successful in the work God has for him to do. (Psalm 118:25, 139:9-10)
10. Pray he have a strong sense of belonging to a family that is loving and dwells together in unity (Psalms 133, Colossians 3:12-14).
11. Pray he will respect authority. (Romans 13:1, Ephesians 6:1-4).
12. Pray that his entire life will be a testimony of the greatness and love of Christ. (Philippians 2:15-16 Thess 5:2-3)
If you pray one of these a month, you will have your child covered for a year!
Author Unknown
Friday, July 20, 2007
The Faithful Fathers of the Church
The Italian priest kidnapped more than a month ago in the Philippines was finally released. Incidentally, his release coincides with the 87th birthday of his mother.
Despite the spate of scandals in the Catholic church involving priests, the majority are not even noticed for their faithful service. Southern Philippines is known for Muslim extremists. A few years ago, an American missionary couple was also abducted. Unfortunately, the man was killed and the wife was able to return to the US.
I remember a Filipino priest who once mentioned in his homily that he rides a motorbike to say mass in the chapels under his parish. Not all priests in the Philippines could afford a car as many parishes are poor. Also, it serves him better because of the monstrous traffic in his area plus the savings in fuel. Despite these hassles in carrying out his vocation, he was thankful as his classmates were not as lucky.
One of his classmates would ride a motorized small boat or more popularly known as banca in the Philippines to get to say mass to a community under his parish. Another classmate rides a horse!!!
Let us always remember that many of our priests are carrying out their duties under not so good circumstances. The state of the Catholic church in the US does not speak for the entire Catholic church. This gives us more reasons to pray for those who are in harms' way like Father Bossi.
God bless our priests.
Despite the spate of scandals in the Catholic church involving priests, the majority are not even noticed for their faithful service. Southern Philippines is known for Muslim extremists. A few years ago, an American missionary couple was also abducted. Unfortunately, the man was killed and the wife was able to return to the US.
I remember a Filipino priest who once mentioned in his homily that he rides a motorbike to say mass in the chapels under his parish. Not all priests in the Philippines could afford a car as many parishes are poor. Also, it serves him better because of the monstrous traffic in his area plus the savings in fuel. Despite these hassles in carrying out his vocation, he was thankful as his classmates were not as lucky.
One of his classmates would ride a motorized small boat or more popularly known as banca in the Philippines to get to say mass to a community under his parish. Another classmate rides a horse!!!
Let us always remember that many of our priests are carrying out their duties under not so good circumstances. The state of the Catholic church in the US does not speak for the entire Catholic church. This gives us more reasons to pray for those who are in harms' way like Father Bossi.
God bless our priests.
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Lost Shepherds
The Archdiocese of Los Angeles announced the largest church settlement of sexual misconduct cases to the tune of $ 660M. Other previous settlement cases in the US were of the Boston Archdiocese amounting to $157M, Archdiocese of Portland, Ore. at $129M, Diocese of Orange, California at $100M, and $85M for the Diocese of Covington, Ky.
The money could've very well been spent on more important concerns of the church. On second thoughts, these cases mirror the sad state of the Catholic church in the US. I am sure there are similar incidents worldwide, though not as prevalent. The Philippines which has far more number of Catholics than the entire USA, for example has not had so much cases. There were complaints against two prominent bishops. However, both were from women.
Nevertheless, in St. Francis of Assissi's first admonition, let not the sins of the priests distract us from the presence of the Lord in mass and the sacraments which they give. It is indeed a severe test of our faith when we hear of these misconducts. But then it is also a challenge for all of us just as St. Francis gave his obedience to the Pope and bishops when they did not understand what he felt God was asking him to do.
Let us continue to pray for the shepherds of our flock that they will perservere in their calling.
Incidentally, today is the birthday of my younger brother, the one right after me and the eldest of my four younger brothers. May God continue to be present in his life.
The money could've very well been spent on more important concerns of the church. On second thoughts, these cases mirror the sad state of the Catholic church in the US. I am sure there are similar incidents worldwide, though not as prevalent. The Philippines which has far more number of Catholics than the entire USA, for example has not had so much cases. There were complaints against two prominent bishops. However, both were from women.
Nevertheless, in St. Francis of Assissi's first admonition, let not the sins of the priests distract us from the presence of the Lord in mass and the sacraments which they give. It is indeed a severe test of our faith when we hear of these misconducts. But then it is also a challenge for all of us just as St. Francis gave his obedience to the Pope and bishops when they did not understand what he felt God was asking him to do.
Let us continue to pray for the shepherds of our flock that they will perservere in their calling.
Incidentally, today is the birthday of my younger brother, the one right after me and the eldest of my four younger brothers. May God continue to be present in his life.
Abortion in Portugal
The law legalizing abortion on the first ten weeks of pregnancy took effect in Portugal on Sunday. This is sad considering that the country is largely Catholic. I wonder if it would make any difference if more people turned in to vote openly against the law in the referendum in February.
Let us invoke the Lady of Fatima for the people of Portugal.
Full story here.
Let us invoke the Lady of Fatima for the people of Portugal.
Full story here.
Monday, July 16, 2007
Our Lady of Mount Carmel
I came to know of our Lady of Mount Carmel as a child from my grandmother who's a devotee. The Lady of Mount Carmel is her hometown patron so even long after she had moved to the city, she faithfully observed Her feastday. A few months before she passed away, she asked me to have a dress made for her in the traditional Carmelite color to wear on her funeral. She also asked me to look for the Carmelite belt in her belongings just in case it is time for her to go.
Though I don't wear the scapular, I have long been praying to our Lady for favors. It pleased my grandmother that I had gone to the national shrine on her feast day a number of years already, where she also used to go when she was still capable.
Today is also memorable to me as 17 years ago, I survived a natural catastrophe that caused the death of hundreds of people and damages to properties worth millions of dollars.
Maybe, it was my grandmother's prayers at that time that protected me, as I was on official travel. They heard the news and were very much worried as they knew I was at the location of the disaster. Communication was down and I can't let her know that we were safe.
However, as soon as my colleague got the chance, after standing in line for long in a local radio station free call service for the public, he informed our office that we were all safe.
Our Lady of Mount Carmel pray for us today and until we come face to face with your Son, Jesus.
Though I don't wear the scapular, I have long been praying to our Lady for favors. It pleased my grandmother that I had gone to the national shrine on her feast day a number of years already, where she also used to go when she was still capable.
Today is also memorable to me as 17 years ago, I survived a natural catastrophe that caused the death of hundreds of people and damages to properties worth millions of dollars.
Maybe, it was my grandmother's prayers at that time that protected me, as I was on official travel. They heard the news and were very much worried as they knew I was at the location of the disaster. Communication was down and I can't let her know that we were safe.
However, as soon as my colleague got the chance, after standing in line for long in a local radio station free call service for the public, he informed our office that we were all safe.
Our Lady of Mount Carmel pray for us today and until we come face to face with your Son, Jesus.
Friday, July 13, 2007
No other gods
I was saddened by the news that the first Hindu prayer ever in the Senate was interrupted by Christians. Not that I approve of a Hindu leading the prayer but I feel that Christians should act with charity no matter what.
When I read about this a few weeks ago, I posted the news on a Catholic site to see how they would react. However, I don't think it was seen as it is for others look at it as an anti-American post.
Personally, I shudder at the thought of calling on other gods to start the Senate session. Sometimes, freedom is taken too far to please everybody at the expense of what is right.
I guess many Christians in the US couldn't even care less as that is what is freedom is all about. I don't think so...
I am the LORD your God: you shall not have strange gods before me. (First Commandment)
Full story here.
When I read about this a few weeks ago, I posted the news on a Catholic site to see how they would react. However, I don't think it was seen as it is for others look at it as an anti-American post.
Personally, I shudder at the thought of calling on other gods to start the Senate session. Sometimes, freedom is taken too far to please everybody at the expense of what is right.
I guess many Christians in the US couldn't even care less as that is what is freedom is all about. I don't think so...
I am the LORD your God: you shall not have strange gods before me. (First Commandment)
Full story here.
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Happy birthday to our parish priest
I almost forgot! Today is also the birthday of our new parish priest. Our group was requested to prepare a song number for the program after the mass. Unfortunately, I won't be able to join them.
In the past, programs and entertainment are always part of special occasions in church. However, I am not really sure if it would still be the same now. People have different personalities and some are not into socials. We are still testing the waters as to how our new parish priest would welcome these activities.
I'll let you know in the coming days.
May God keep Father R. faithful to his vocation.
In the past, programs and entertainment are always part of special occasions in church. However, I am not really sure if it would still be the same now. People have different personalities and some are not into socials. We are still testing the waters as to how our new parish priest would welcome these activities.
I'll let you know in the coming days.
May God keep Father R. faithful to his vocation.
Saint Benedict
Today is the feast day of St. Benedict. I have been praying to him everyday for quite some time already. With evil abounding everywhere and as one who lives alone, I thought it wise to invoke his prayers.
After all, he was himself saved when he blessed the poison wine. His commitment to spiritual excellence was just too much for some monks that they attempted to kill him. I have long been wanting to get myself a St. Benedict medal. It is widely known and used throughout the Christian world as a sacramental with exorcising properties.
But then its value and power should be ascribed to the merits of Christ crucified, the efficacious prayers of St. Benedict, the blessing of the Church and especially to the faith and holy disposition of the person using the medal.
So even without the medal, I am sure that St. Benedict hears my prayers.
St. Benedict pray for protection for me, my family and my friends.
After all, he was himself saved when he blessed the poison wine. His commitment to spiritual excellence was just too much for some monks that they attempted to kill him. I have long been wanting to get myself a St. Benedict medal. It is widely known and used throughout the Christian world as a sacramental with exorcising properties.
But then its value and power should be ascribed to the merits of Christ crucified, the efficacious prayers of St. Benedict, the blessing of the Church and especially to the faith and holy disposition of the person using the medal.
So even without the medal, I am sure that St. Benedict hears my prayers.
St. Benedict pray for protection for me, my family and my friends.
Priorities
It has been a while since my last entry. I have not been very diligent in my blogging as I was spending more time in another forum. With the recent happenings I had the chance to reassess my priorities and values.
It wasn't a difficult decision at all. I had done my part in many ways. However, when the push turned to shove, I realized it wasn't worth all the efforts and pain.
We don't have to fight all our battles. Only those that are necessary and are for the greater glory of God. Even Jesus instructed his apostles, "If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave that home or town." (Matthew 10:14)
Winners know when to quit. And as the world has persecuted Jesus, we can expect nothing less as His disciples.
I hope to post more in the coming days.
It wasn't a difficult decision at all. I had done my part in many ways. However, when the push turned to shove, I realized it wasn't worth all the efforts and pain.
We don't have to fight all our battles. Only those that are necessary and are for the greater glory of God. Even Jesus instructed his apostles, "If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave that home or town." (Matthew 10:14)
Winners know when to quit. And as the world has persecuted Jesus, we can expect nothing less as His disciples.
I hope to post more in the coming days.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Happy Birthday Sis
Today is my eldest sister's birthday. I remember birthdays of family and friends very well. I don't know it you can call it a gift. People I know are amazed at how I manage to memorize their birthdays.
Birthday celebrations in our family are usually simple and private. We don't have big parties nor do we invite other people. Often, we prepare a special meal to be shared within the family. The birthday celebrant also has to go to mass and offer thanksgiving intentions.
As we get older, family celebrations became more simple. Maybe because there isn't enough time to prepare anymore particularly when the day falls on a working day. However, the venue is transferred to the office where we prepare a meal to share with our officemates.
Since my sister is already married I assume she will have her special meal at dinner time with her family after treating her officemates earlier during the day.
I wish her the best on this special day. May God pour out abundant blessings on her.
Birthday celebrations in our family are usually simple and private. We don't have big parties nor do we invite other people. Often, we prepare a special meal to be shared within the family. The birthday celebrant also has to go to mass and offer thanksgiving intentions.
As we get older, family celebrations became more simple. Maybe because there isn't enough time to prepare anymore particularly when the day falls on a working day. However, the venue is transferred to the office where we prepare a meal to share with our officemates.
Since my sister is already married I assume she will have her special meal at dinner time with her family after treating her officemates earlier during the day.
I wish her the best on this special day. May God pour out abundant blessings on her.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Remembering Our Father
On 17th of June, we remembered all the fathers in this world. I hate occasions like this as often they are to a large extent often commercialized.
Long before the day, malls and other business establishments advertise whatever they offer to help us celebrate this day. There are suggested gifts and even activities to make this day special for our fathers.
In the church I serve, fathers were called in front after the communion. One led the prayer for the fathers and after which the priest gave his blessing. It was quite a sight as I didn't expect fathers to comprise half the entire congregation. Incidentally, it was also the first Sunday mass of our new parish priest.
Not all fathers were remembered that day. Some by circumstances, others by choice. However, no matter the reason, we should take the time to honor this person who was instrumental in bringing us to this world or probably took the responsibility of bringing us up to where we are now.
More than anything else, we should at least pray for them that God will be merciful to them despite their own shortcomings. Not all fathers proved to be worthy of this noble calling. Even then, Father's day is much more than giving back to them what they have given their children. It's not the gift, nor the moment you shared on this day. But above all, it is our gratefulness to the Father in heaven for giving us life through this imperfect person.
God bless all biological and non-biological fathers.
Long before the day, malls and other business establishments advertise whatever they offer to help us celebrate this day. There are suggested gifts and even activities to make this day special for our fathers.
In the church I serve, fathers were called in front after the communion. One led the prayer for the fathers and after which the priest gave his blessing. It was quite a sight as I didn't expect fathers to comprise half the entire congregation. Incidentally, it was also the first Sunday mass of our new parish priest.
Not all fathers were remembered that day. Some by circumstances, others by choice. However, no matter the reason, we should take the time to honor this person who was instrumental in bringing us to this world or probably took the responsibility of bringing us up to where we are now.
More than anything else, we should at least pray for them that God will be merciful to them despite their own shortcomings. Not all fathers proved to be worthy of this noble calling. Even then, Father's day is much more than giving back to them what they have given their children. It's not the gift, nor the moment you shared on this day. But above all, it is our gratefulness to the Father in heaven for giving us life through this imperfect person.
God bless all biological and non-biological fathers.
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Something is lost
Today is the feast of one of my favorite saints, Saint Anthony of Padua. He is known to be the finder of lost articles. I call on him often when I seek lost things and there he finds it for me.
A few years ago, his relics visited our country. I took the time to go to the Shrine of St. Anthony after office hours. I was able to get to him without much effort by passing through a side door. After the mass, I realized that there was a crowd outside the church waiting in line to venerate the relics. Well, maybe St. Anthony knew I live far away so he led me right away to him.
Invoke him for your needs not only for lost things but for lost souls as well.
"Tony, Tony, turn around. Something's lost and must be found."
A few years ago, his relics visited our country. I took the time to go to the Shrine of St. Anthony after office hours. I was able to get to him without much effort by passing through a side door. After the mass, I realized that there was a crowd outside the church waiting in line to venerate the relics. Well, maybe St. Anthony knew I live far away so he led me right away to him.
Invoke him for your needs not only for lost things but for lost souls as well.
"Tony, Tony, turn around. Something's lost and must be found."
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Goodbye Father...until then
We are halfway through with 2007. How time flies! Incidentally, we also said goodbye to our parish priest of six years who would be moving to another parish.
It was quite an emotional scene after his last Sunday morning mass with us. I, for one does not easily become emotional. Maybe because we were raised to shed tears as sparingly as possible. However, there was also a feeling of sadness when it finally dawned on me that he will no longer be with us.
Life is dynamic. All the more with priests and those who serve God in Holy Orders. It serves to remind us that we are all pilgrims in this world. I can still vividly remember the time we welcome him as our new priest. Now it has come to an end. Just like the two before him.
Yes there is sadness as we close another chapter of our lives. But then we open another chapter to another servant God has put into our lives. It is not easy to be a priest. People sometimes expect too much. Despite this, he has to continue with the task before him.
I may not had enough opportunities to express my gratitude for this man of God. In fact our encounters were limited to the Sunday masses and occasional masses when we sing for weddings and other occasions.
But then more than anything else I realized praying for our priests everyday would mean more to them than any other thing we can offer as token of our gratitude for the sacrifice they make to spread God's kingdom.
God bless Father Allan in his new assignment. May God's grace be more than enough for him to do even more than what he has done for our parish.
Goodbye Father...until then.
To everything there is a season,
a time for every purpose under the sun.
A time to be born and a time to die;
a time to plant and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
a time to kill and a time to heal ...
a time to weep and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn and a time to dance ...
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing;
a time to lose and a time to seek;
a time to rend and a time to sew;
a time to keep silent and a time to speak;
a time to love and a time to hate;
a time for war and a time for peace.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
It was quite an emotional scene after his last Sunday morning mass with us. I, for one does not easily become emotional. Maybe because we were raised to shed tears as sparingly as possible. However, there was also a feeling of sadness when it finally dawned on me that he will no longer be with us.
Life is dynamic. All the more with priests and those who serve God in Holy Orders. It serves to remind us that we are all pilgrims in this world. I can still vividly remember the time we welcome him as our new priest. Now it has come to an end. Just like the two before him.
Yes there is sadness as we close another chapter of our lives. But then we open another chapter to another servant God has put into our lives. It is not easy to be a priest. People sometimes expect too much. Despite this, he has to continue with the task before him.
I may not had enough opportunities to express my gratitude for this man of God. In fact our encounters were limited to the Sunday masses and occasional masses when we sing for weddings and other occasions.
But then more than anything else I realized praying for our priests everyday would mean more to them than any other thing we can offer as token of our gratitude for the sacrifice they make to spread God's kingdom.
God bless Father Allan in his new assignment. May God's grace be more than enough for him to do even more than what he has done for our parish.
Goodbye Father...until then.
To everything there is a season,
a time for every purpose under the sun.
A time to be born and a time to die;
a time to plant and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
a time to kill and a time to heal ...
a time to weep and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn and a time to dance ...
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing;
a time to lose and a time to seek;
a time to rend and a time to sew;
a time to keep silent and a time to speak;
a time to love and a time to hate;
a time for war and a time for peace.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
Friday, May 25, 2007
Getting out of our comfort zones
It has been three months since my last post. With my computer crashing and getting busy with a lot of things, I had to take a break.
You must be wondering what I did during the time that I had not posted. I tried some new things. As I have mentioned in my profile I am into playing different musical instruments. Since it is summer vacation, I got a call from the music studio where my brother used to teach inviting me to teach piano, violin and voice.
I was hesitant at first since I think I don't have the patience to teach anymore. At my age, I prefer less stressful work. On second thoughts and after asking my brother, I decided to try it. Anyway, it's a short distance from home and it wouldn't harm if I teach only for three days a week.
Sometimes, we have to step out of our comfort zones to experience new things. More than the financial reward, it was a learning experience. I only agreed to teach for six weeks. When it's time for me to go, I felt emotional leaving behind my colleagues and students who are as well sad about my decision. I had to resist their pleading that I stay. That is life. Even seasons change. It was nice having our paths cross for a time. But we must continue with our journey and remain focus on our goals. Life goes on...
You must be wondering what I did during the time that I had not posted. I tried some new things. As I have mentioned in my profile I am into playing different musical instruments. Since it is summer vacation, I got a call from the music studio where my brother used to teach inviting me to teach piano, violin and voice.
I was hesitant at first since I think I don't have the patience to teach anymore. At my age, I prefer less stressful work. On second thoughts and after asking my brother, I decided to try it. Anyway, it's a short distance from home and it wouldn't harm if I teach only for three days a week.
Sometimes, we have to step out of our comfort zones to experience new things. More than the financial reward, it was a learning experience. I only agreed to teach for six weeks. When it's time for me to go, I felt emotional leaving behind my colleagues and students who are as well sad about my decision. I had to resist their pleading that I stay. That is life. Even seasons change. It was nice having our paths cross for a time. But we must continue with our journey and remain focus on our goals. Life goes on...
Thursday, February 22, 2007
Remembering Old Times
I have been planning to go to confession in a while. I thought it would be nice to go for a clean start on Ash Wednesday. I went to the church near where I used to teach since I know they hear confession at different times.
When I got to church, the Eucharist was expsosed for benediction and adoration. I thought that would be a nice way to prepare for confession. After half an hour, I recognized a lady two pews in front of me as a former colleague in the nautical school. I don't want to disturb her as she has been reading a prayer book. After a while, she walked to the picture of Our Lady of Perpetual Help near the altar. As she walked back to leave, I waved at her and she recognized me. I wanted to catch up on our other colleagues though I thought it inappropriate to talk in church. She told me she will just check someone at the back of the church and will be right back. I noticed more people standing in line at the confessional.
I thought I should remain seated and wait until the people are done. She went back to me with another colleague, a new face. Obviously, he didn't recognize me as he joined the school a few years after I have left.
It has been 12 years since I was with the school. I asked my friend to go out so we can talk. We sat by the concrete planters as we talked about our other colleagues. I realized we had so much to talk about. I felt sad that some of my colleagues had passed away. There were a few who are still there but most of them have moved on for better opportunities.
We had a nice time sharing our lives. I checked on the time as I feel that there will be a mass to start soon. And right on, it has just started when we came in. I saw the confessional lights still on. After a few minutes it was out.
As we stepped out of the church and bid our goodbye, I gave her my card. I was not able to confess as planned. However, deep inside I feel that somehow she felt better seeing me and sharing her deep longings. In her 50s she has not married.
Friends lift us up when we are down. There are times when unexpectedly we bump into them. Or could it be God telling us something?
When I got to church, the Eucharist was expsosed for benediction and adoration. I thought that would be a nice way to prepare for confession. After half an hour, I recognized a lady two pews in front of me as a former colleague in the nautical school. I don't want to disturb her as she has been reading a prayer book. After a while, she walked to the picture of Our Lady of Perpetual Help near the altar. As she walked back to leave, I waved at her and she recognized me. I wanted to catch up on our other colleagues though I thought it inappropriate to talk in church. She told me she will just check someone at the back of the church and will be right back. I noticed more people standing in line at the confessional.
I thought I should remain seated and wait until the people are done. She went back to me with another colleague, a new face. Obviously, he didn't recognize me as he joined the school a few years after I have left.
It has been 12 years since I was with the school. I asked my friend to go out so we can talk. We sat by the concrete planters as we talked about our other colleagues. I realized we had so much to talk about. I felt sad that some of my colleagues had passed away. There were a few who are still there but most of them have moved on for better opportunities.
We had a nice time sharing our lives. I checked on the time as I feel that there will be a mass to start soon. And right on, it has just started when we came in. I saw the confessional lights still on. After a few minutes it was out.
As we stepped out of the church and bid our goodbye, I gave her my card. I was not able to confess as planned. However, deep inside I feel that somehow she felt better seeing me and sharing her deep longings. In her 50s she has not married.
Friends lift us up when we are down. There are times when unexpectedly we bump into them. Or could it be God telling us something?
Monday, February 19, 2007
For a few coins
As I stopped for the red light on my way to church early Sunday morning, I was struck by this young man maybe 17 or 18 and no more than 20 wiping the windshields of cars in front of me. I know this is a familiar scene during rainy season when boys or young men carrying buckets of water would wash your windshield and ask for a few coins.
I don't usually let them wash my windshield since I don't think it is right for them to be doing that in the middle of the street during a stop. It endangers their lives and often when the light turns green, they would hurriedly run to the sidewalk.
However, it was a beautiful sunny morning about a few minutes after six. He was not able to get near my car as the light turned green though I was thinking that if he did, I would let him and give him a few of my spare coins.
I don't know why I changed my views. Probably it was unusual for a teenage boy to be up that early just to earn some money. It seems to me that there is something special about this teen doing that when most people are still in bed. Could it be that he needed money for school and that Sunday being off is the only time he could do something for some spare change?
Also, most boys who do that during the rainy season are in pairs or groups unlike this young man who's alone in an intersection where one would not likely see them.
As he walked away to the sidewalk, I said to myself that I will offer prayers for his intentions. Perspectives change. Sometimes, there's just that voice within you that tells you to do something good for others even if it is just by way of prayers. I just finished the Chaplet of Mercy for him. God certainly knows his intentions.
I don't usually let them wash my windshield since I don't think it is right for them to be doing that in the middle of the street during a stop. It endangers their lives and often when the light turns green, they would hurriedly run to the sidewalk.
However, it was a beautiful sunny morning about a few minutes after six. He was not able to get near my car as the light turned green though I was thinking that if he did, I would let him and give him a few of my spare coins.
I don't know why I changed my views. Probably it was unusual for a teenage boy to be up that early just to earn some money. It seems to me that there is something special about this teen doing that when most people are still in bed. Could it be that he needed money for school and that Sunday being off is the only time he could do something for some spare change?
Also, most boys who do that during the rainy season are in pairs or groups unlike this young man who's alone in an intersection where one would not likely see them.
As he walked away to the sidewalk, I said to myself that I will offer prayers for his intentions. Perspectives change. Sometimes, there's just that voice within you that tells you to do something good for others even if it is just by way of prayers. I just finished the Chaplet of Mercy for him. God certainly knows his intentions.
Thursday, February 15, 2007
Valentine
Love is in the air. Wherever you go people are excited about Valentine's day except probably those who are single as it is often considered a day for lovers. Flower shops and restaurants are probably making huge money with most couples taking time off to be with each other. I don't think we need to wait for this once in a year occasion. Everyday should be an opportunity for us to show our love. Love is not
only about couples but for everyone who has a heart. It's not also just about flowers, chocolates and expensive gifts.
If only we could be filled with love everyday for others, I am sure there would be less conflict, strife and suffering. There is no need for anything spectacular. All we need is to show that we really care. Simple gestures that will make people around us special and cared for. Would you take up the challenge?
only about couples but for everyone who has a heart. It's not also just about flowers, chocolates and expensive gifts.
If only we could be filled with love everyday for others, I am sure there would be less conflict, strife and suffering. There is no need for anything spectacular. All we need is to show that we really care. Simple gestures that will make people around us special and cared for. Would you take up the challenge?
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
Motivations
Our actions and words are determined to a large extent by our motivations. In our everyday lives, some things become routine that we don't get to wonder about why we are doing those things. If we are to make the most of our lives, we should learn to set our priorities in order. Are we spending our energy on those that really count? Or are the less important ones taking up much of our time?
Some people are quick to question other people's motivations when we need not look further than ourselves. Are you where you wanted to be? Obviously, taking the time to plan our daily activities that should make us closer to our goals would be useful.
Start now. What do you seek to accomplish in the next few hours, days, weeks or months. Then work on the ones that mean more to you. You will be surprised by the progress you have accomplished instead of worrying about what other people's agenda are.
Some people are quick to question other people's motivations when we need not look further than ourselves. Are you where you wanted to be? Obviously, taking the time to plan our daily activities that should make us closer to our goals would be useful.
Start now. What do you seek to accomplish in the next few hours, days, weeks or months. Then work on the ones that mean more to you. You will be surprised by the progress you have accomplished instead of worrying about what other people's agenda are.
Monday, February 12, 2007
Humility
Humility is getting to be a lost virtue. In a world of materialism, people who have more are better regarded than those without. So, people flaunt whatever they have: money, possessions, talent and skills. What we lack in one thing could easily be made up for by having money and possessions. The rich seem to dictate what is happening in our society as people look up to them. The ones with talents or skills also get their share of the limelight.
Not that these are bad in itself. But when we start behaving like little gods and treating people like they are inferior, whatever blessings that we have become our downfall. People with a lot of money and possessions outdo each other. Or in some cases look on people like they are things that can be bought.
The ones who know more or skillful in certain aspects become obsessed about being the best. They are threatened when there are new and upcoming people that could kick them off their thrones. Some begin to think that they are self-sufficient and won't hear a word from those below.
If we are one of the above, let us pause for a while and think that everything is a gift from God. These are all to be used for His purpose. Only when we have this in mind can we truly give the glory to God. It is difficult not to feel confident when we are successful and on top of the world. Let us strive to put God before ourselves in everything. By becoming man, Jesus has claimed the victory for us. It's our turn now to die to ourselves. How?
DYING TO SELF (Source Unknown)
When you are forgotten, or neglected, or purposely set at naught, and you don't sting and hurt with the insult or the oversight, but your heart is happy, being counted worthy to suffer for Christ.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When your good is evil spoken of, when your wishes are crossed, your advice disregarded, your opinions ridiculed, and you refuse to let anger rise in your heart, or even defend yourself, but take in all in patient, loving silence.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you lovingly and patiently bear any disorder, any irregularity, any impunctuality, or any annoyance; when you stand face-to- face with waste, folly, extravagance, spiritual insensibility-and endure it as Jesus endured.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you are content with any food, any offering, any climate, any society, any raiment, any interruption by the will of God.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you never care to refer to yourself in conversation, or to record your own good works, or itch after commendations, when you can truly love to be unknown.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you can see your brother prosper and have his needs met and can honestly rejoice with him in spirit and feel no envy, nor question God, while your own needs are far greater and in desperate circumstances.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you can receive correction and reproof from one of less stature than yourself and can humbly submit inwardly as well as outwardly, finding no rebellion or resentment rising up within your heart.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
Are you dead yet?
Not that these are bad in itself. But when we start behaving like little gods and treating people like they are inferior, whatever blessings that we have become our downfall. People with a lot of money and possessions outdo each other. Or in some cases look on people like they are things that can be bought.
The ones who know more or skillful in certain aspects become obsessed about being the best. They are threatened when there are new and upcoming people that could kick them off their thrones. Some begin to think that they are self-sufficient and won't hear a word from those below.
If we are one of the above, let us pause for a while and think that everything is a gift from God. These are all to be used for His purpose. Only when we have this in mind can we truly give the glory to God. It is difficult not to feel confident when we are successful and on top of the world. Let us strive to put God before ourselves in everything. By becoming man, Jesus has claimed the victory for us. It's our turn now to die to ourselves. How?
DYING TO SELF (Source Unknown)
When you are forgotten, or neglected, or purposely set at naught, and you don't sting and hurt with the insult or the oversight, but your heart is happy, being counted worthy to suffer for Christ.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When your good is evil spoken of, when your wishes are crossed, your advice disregarded, your opinions ridiculed, and you refuse to let anger rise in your heart, or even defend yourself, but take in all in patient, loving silence.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you lovingly and patiently bear any disorder, any irregularity, any impunctuality, or any annoyance; when you stand face-to- face with waste, folly, extravagance, spiritual insensibility-and endure it as Jesus endured.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you are content with any food, any offering, any climate, any society, any raiment, any interruption by the will of God.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you never care to refer to yourself in conversation, or to record your own good works, or itch after commendations, when you can truly love to be unknown.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you can see your brother prosper and have his needs met and can honestly rejoice with him in spirit and feel no envy, nor question God, while your own needs are far greater and in desperate circumstances.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
When you can receive correction and reproof from one of less stature than yourself and can humbly submit inwardly as well as outwardly, finding no rebellion or resentment rising up within your heart.
THAT IS DYING TO SELF
Are you dead yet?
Friday, February 9, 2007
Life
The death of Anna Nicole Smith at age 39 came as a surprise to everybody. I guess it reminds us once again of tomorrow's uncertainty. In 1994, she married the 89-year old J. Howard Marshall II, owner of Great Northern Oil Co. In 1995, Marshall died at age 90. This set off a feud between Smith and her stepson E. Pierce Marshall, whether she has a right to his estate.
This is tragic as money is of no use in eternity. Her stepson died in June 20 at age 67. Now she has passed away. She was awarded $474M by a federal court in California but was later overturned. In May, the US Supreme Court revived her case.
It is important that we have the right priorities in life. One just never know when it is the end. We cannot bring anything from this world. Relationships should come first before anything. I wonder if they just came up with a reasonable settlement.
This is tragic as money is of no use in eternity. Her stepson died in June 20 at age 67. Now she has passed away. She was awarded $474M by a federal court in California but was later overturned. In May, the US Supreme Court revived her case.
It is important that we have the right priorities in life. One just never know when it is the end. We cannot bring anything from this world. Relationships should come first before anything. I wonder if they just came up with a reasonable settlement.
Thursday, February 8, 2007
Like Deers
I got an unexpected call today from my sister. She needed help immediately because her car's stuck in the highway with an engine trouble. So I had to find a mechanic and drove there as quickly as I can hoping it was nothing really serious.
When I got to her, her husband was already there and they had managed to pull over a narrow passageway. Life brings unexpected turns. I have made other plans for the day. However, it wouldn't be right to let her deal with this problem by herself.
Did you know that when deers need to cross a river, each one of them carries on its back the head of the one behind while it rests its head on the back of the one in front? In this way, they are able to safely cross wide rivers until they get to the other side.
This came to my mind as the three of us drove our cars one before the other to bring my sister's car to the shop. The day didn't go as planned but I still managed to do the things I needed to do.
When I got to her, her husband was already there and they had managed to pull over a narrow passageway. Life brings unexpected turns. I have made other plans for the day. However, it wouldn't be right to let her deal with this problem by herself.
Did you know that when deers need to cross a river, each one of them carries on its back the head of the one behind while it rests its head on the back of the one in front? In this way, they are able to safely cross wide rivers until they get to the other side.
This came to my mind as the three of us drove our cars one before the other to bring my sister's car to the shop. The day didn't go as planned but I still managed to do the things I needed to do.
Wednesday, February 7, 2007
On Penance
In two weeks, we will start Lent. Catholics are to abstain from meat every Friday and observe fasting during Lent. These are little sacrifices compared to the punishments we deserve for our sins and the suffering Jesus went through for us.
God is merciful and He forgives our sins every time we come to Him in the sacrament of reconciliation. However, let us not forget that sins have consequences both here on earth and in eternity. Just as an apology is necessary, we are also to make amends for whatever we have done.
Have you ever thought about the penances your confessor impose on you? A few "Our Fathers", "Hail Marys" or maybe a rosary. Do you honestly believe these are sufficient? In purgatory, we get to spend time for these sins. Would you not think about starting right now when there are opportunities that will even help you to totally conquer these sins?
Let us learn from St. John Marie Vianney:
Choose those which suit your case best. If you have the misfortune to be someone who gives scandal, you should make yourself so watchful of your behaviour that your neighbour will not be able to see anything in your life which would give him anything but good example; you should show by your conduct that your life is truly Christian. If you are one of those unhappy people who sin against the holy virtue of purity, you should mortify that sinful body with fasting, giving it only what it needs to sustain life and to fulfil its functions, from time to time making it sleep upon bare boards. If you are one of those who has to have something to eat which will gratify your gluttony, you should refuse this to your body and despise it as much as you previously loved it. When your body wants to cost you your soul, you must punish it. Your heart, which must often have thought of impure things, has carried your thoughts into Hell, which is the place reserved for the unchaste.
If you are attached to the things of this earth, you should give alms sufficient to enable you to punish your avarice by depriving yourself of all that is not absolutely necessary for life.
If we have been negligent in the service of God, let us impose upon ourselves the penance of assisting at all the exercises of piety which are going on in our parish. I would advise Mass, Vespers, catechism, prayers, the Rosary, so that God, seeing our eagerness, may be good enough to pardon us all our negligences. If we have spare time between the services, let us do some spiritual reading, which will nourish our souls -- above all, some reading of the lives of the saints wherein we may see how they behaved in order to sanctify themselves. That will encourage us. Let us make some short visit to the Blessed Sacrament during the week to ask God to pardon the sins we have committed. If we feel ourselves guilty of some fault, let us go and get rid of it so that our prayers and all our good works may be pleasing to God and more advantageous to our souls. Have we the habit of swearing or of flying into rages? Let us go down on our knees to say again this holy prayer: "My God, may your holy name be blessed for ever and ever! My God, purify my heart, purify my lips so that they may never pronounce words which would outrage you and separate me from you!"
Any time that you fall into this sin, you should immediately either make an act of contrition or give away something to the poor. Have you been working on Sunday? Have you been buying or selling without necessity in the course of this holy day?
Give to the poor some alms which will exceed the profit you have made. Have you been eating or drinking to excess? In all your meals you should deprive yourself of something.
You can think about other ways to impose on yourself hoping that you be better persons after Lent. Or you might as well continue with your self-imposed penance until you see Christ in you while still here on earth.
God is merciful and He forgives our sins every time we come to Him in the sacrament of reconciliation. However, let us not forget that sins have consequences both here on earth and in eternity. Just as an apology is necessary, we are also to make amends for whatever we have done.
Have you ever thought about the penances your confessor impose on you? A few "Our Fathers", "Hail Marys" or maybe a rosary. Do you honestly believe these are sufficient? In purgatory, we get to spend time for these sins. Would you not think about starting right now when there are opportunities that will even help you to totally conquer these sins?
Let us learn from St. John Marie Vianney:
Choose those which suit your case best. If you have the misfortune to be someone who gives scandal, you should make yourself so watchful of your behaviour that your neighbour will not be able to see anything in your life which would give him anything but good example; you should show by your conduct that your life is truly Christian. If you are one of those unhappy people who sin against the holy virtue of purity, you should mortify that sinful body with fasting, giving it only what it needs to sustain life and to fulfil its functions, from time to time making it sleep upon bare boards. If you are one of those who has to have something to eat which will gratify your gluttony, you should refuse this to your body and despise it as much as you previously loved it. When your body wants to cost you your soul, you must punish it. Your heart, which must often have thought of impure things, has carried your thoughts into Hell, which is the place reserved for the unchaste.
If you are attached to the things of this earth, you should give alms sufficient to enable you to punish your avarice by depriving yourself of all that is not absolutely necessary for life.
If we have been negligent in the service of God, let us impose upon ourselves the penance of assisting at all the exercises of piety which are going on in our parish. I would advise Mass, Vespers, catechism, prayers, the Rosary, so that God, seeing our eagerness, may be good enough to pardon us all our negligences. If we have spare time between the services, let us do some spiritual reading, which will nourish our souls -- above all, some reading of the lives of the saints wherein we may see how they behaved in order to sanctify themselves. That will encourage us. Let us make some short visit to the Blessed Sacrament during the week to ask God to pardon the sins we have committed. If we feel ourselves guilty of some fault, let us go and get rid of it so that our prayers and all our good works may be pleasing to God and more advantageous to our souls. Have we the habit of swearing or of flying into rages? Let us go down on our knees to say again this holy prayer: "My God, may your holy name be blessed for ever and ever! My God, purify my heart, purify my lips so that they may never pronounce words which would outrage you and separate me from you!"
Any time that you fall into this sin, you should immediately either make an act of contrition or give away something to the poor. Have you been working on Sunday? Have you been buying or selling without necessity in the course of this holy day?
Give to the poor some alms which will exceed the profit you have made. Have you been eating or drinking to excess? In all your meals you should deprive yourself of something.
You can think about other ways to impose on yourself hoping that you be better persons after Lent. Or you might as well continue with your self-imposed penance until you see Christ in you while still here on earth.
Tuesday, February 6, 2007
Get a Life
What constitutes a life? Often, we hear people say, "get a life". A life, huh? I am alive and breathing. What life are you talking about?
To me, everyday seems the same routine since I've lost my job. When I was still working, I should be up not later than 5 AM to get to the office on time. Now I am still up the same time and often earlier. This time not to go to the office but to surf the internet for anything that catches my interest. I am that type of person who makes every minute count. I see to it that I use my time for things that are useful.
Maybe I should get a life because I don't go out except during Sundays for church and in some days when there are bills to be paid. Friends wonder if I don't get bored alone in the house. Why would I? There are a lot of things to do when one is at home. In fact, days before I already know what to do next with my time.
And if you must be wondering, my day still ends at 10 PM. Nothing has really changed. I may not be working and have all the freedom to do with my time. However, life to me is doing what you want. Enjoying every minute as a gift to nurture our potentials.
Time is money. We lose if we don't use it properly. You don't just throw away a dime or a dollar. Every second or minute you waste is valuable. At the end of the day, if you could account where you have used your time, then you have a life.
To me, everyday seems the same routine since I've lost my job. When I was still working, I should be up not later than 5 AM to get to the office on time. Now I am still up the same time and often earlier. This time not to go to the office but to surf the internet for anything that catches my interest. I am that type of person who makes every minute count. I see to it that I use my time for things that are useful.
Maybe I should get a life because I don't go out except during Sundays for church and in some days when there are bills to be paid. Friends wonder if I don't get bored alone in the house. Why would I? There are a lot of things to do when one is at home. In fact, days before I already know what to do next with my time.
And if you must be wondering, my day still ends at 10 PM. Nothing has really changed. I may not be working and have all the freedom to do with my time. However, life to me is doing what you want. Enjoying every minute as a gift to nurture our potentials.
Time is money. We lose if we don't use it properly. You don't just throw away a dime or a dollar. Every second or minute you waste is valuable. At the end of the day, if you could account where you have used your time, then you have a life.
Monday, February 5, 2007
Testing the Waters
Finally, I have created my own blog. I never thought that I would take writing seriously. Engineers are known to be poor writers at least about just everything except technical writing. Anyway, it started with posting on message boards until people began to notice my posts. I was flattered when a lady who reads my posts regularly told me that if I would write a column, many would be inspired and encouraged as my posts are usually thought-provoking and inspirational. Well, let's see. I am totally clueless on blogging. Hopefully, I'll get to improve this in the coming days.
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